Заработало..
нужно было внимательно читать man pae
и соседний тред ;)https://www.opennet.ru/openforum/vsluhforumID1/66745.html
Спасибо lavr :)
вообщем короткий отчёт
proxy# uname -rms
FreeBSD 7.0-RC1 i386
proxy# sysctl hw.model
hw.model: Intel(R) Xeon(R) CPU E5345 @ 2.33GHz
proxy# dmesg | grep memory
real memory = 9395240960 (8960 MB)
avail memory = 8402718720 (8013 MB)
сделал make buildkernel KERNCONF=PAE
в PAE заменил только
include GENERIC на include kern
proxy# cat /usr/src/sys/i386/conf/kern | egrep -v '^$|^#'
cpu I686_CPU
ident GEN
options SCHED_4BSD # 4BSD scheduler
options PREEMPTION # Enable kernel thread preemption
options INET # InterNETworking
options FFS # Berkeley Fast Filesystem
options SOFTUPDATES # Enable FFS soft updates support
options UFS_ACL # Support for access control lists
options UFS_DIRHASH # Improve performance on big directories
options UFS_GJOURNAL # Enable gjournal-based UFS journaling
options NFSCLIENT # Network Filesystem Client
options NFSSERVER # Network Filesystem Server
options MSDOSFS # MSDOS Filesystem
options CD9660 # ISO 9660 Filesystem
options PROCFS # Process filesystem (requires PSEUDOFS)
options PSEUDOFS # Pseudo-filesystem framework
options GEOM_PART_GPT # GUID Partition Tables.
options GEOM_LABEL # Provides labelization
options COMPAT_43TTY # BSD 4.3 TTY compat [KEEP THIS!]
options COMPAT_FREEBSD6 # Compatible with FreeBSD6
options SCSI_DELAY=5000 # Delay (in ms) before probing SCSI
options KTRACE # ktrace(1) support
options SYSVSHM # SYSV-style shared memory
options SYSVMSG # SYSV-style message queues
options SYSVSEM # SYSV-style semaphores
options _KPOSIX_PRIORITY_SCHEDULING # POSIX P1003_1B real-time extensions
options KBD_INSTALL_CDEV # install a CDEV entry in /dev
options ADAPTIVE_GIANT # Giant mutex is adaptive.
options STOP_NMI # Stop CPUS using NMI instead of IPI
options AUDIT # Security event auditing
options SMP # Symmetric MultiProcessor Kernel
device apic # I/O APIC
device cpufreq
device eisa
device pci
device ata
device atapicd # ATAPI CDROM drives
options ATA_STATIC_ID # Static device numbering
device scbus # SCSI bus (required for SCSI)
device ch # SCSI media changers
device da # Direct Access (disks)
device sa # Sequential Access (tape etc)
device cd # CD
device pass # Passthrough device (direct SCSI access)
device ses # SCSI Environmental Services (and SAF-TE)
device mfi # LSI MegaRAID SAS
device atkbdc # AT keyboard controller
device atkbd # AT keyboard
device psm # PS/2 mouse
device kbdmux # keyboard multiplexer
device vga # VGA video card driver
device sc
device agp # support several AGP chipsets
device pmtimer
device sio # 8250, 16[45]50 based serial ports
device uart # Generic UART driver
device ppc
device ppbus # Parallel port bus (required)
device miibus # MII bus support
device bce # Broadcom BCM5706/BCM5708 Gigabit Ethernet
device loop # Network loopback
device random # Entropy device
device ether # Ethernet support
device pty # Pseudo-ttys (telnet etc)
device firmware # firmware assist module
device bpf # Berkeley packet filter
единственный минус в том что что на борту Dell PowerEdge 2950 клавиатуру и мышь можно подключить только по USB.. но думаю прорвёмся ;)